Jean Pasco Cancer

March 13, 2006

The Countdown Begins

Four days to go. Everything is set for surgery on Friday, March 17. The two main doctors operating on me will be a week back from vacation, which means they should be well rested and ready for the challenge of my abdomen. It’s always a surprise to anyone who operates on me to see what is going on once they open me up. We’re hoping there will be no “surprises” this time and they docs will see exactly what they are expecting.

Wednesday is pre-test day and I’ll be spending most of the day at Beth Israel. I have several appointments and lots of paperwork to fill out before Pat and I meet with both Dr. Hanto and Dr. DeWolf, the urologist. We’ll go over some final decisions with Dr. Hanto and make sure that Dr. DeWolfe is on the same page as us as well. We need to arrange for a private room for recovery as it’s not fair to anyone else to try to share a bathroom with me. I would really be uncomfortable in a semi-private room, especially since my bowels are not being operated on and therefore will be working as usual meaning at least 8-10 trips a day to the bathroom. Pat can vouch for me – when I have to go, there better not be anything in my way and a bed pan just isn’t even an option.

We need to make the final decision about pain regulation – right now we are leaning towards epidural, which worked great after my last surgery until I knocked it out on day 3. However, I do like the control of a PCA pump and being able to take pain meds when I need them and not have them continually coursing through my body. We’ll see what the anesthesiologist recommends. Also I want to be certain that Dr. Hanto removes my old incision and doesn’t just cut next to it, because the more scar tissue he can remove, the better. Lastly, we assume the tumors will be sent to a tumor board after their removal, but I want to be sure that Dr. Lange is on that board and that the recommendations from it will be forwarded to Dr. Nauta at Mt. Auburn. I’ll do my immediate follow up at Beth Israel, but then my daily care will switch back to Mt. Auburn.

Pat will be posting the rules and regulations of the Beth Israel Transplant center after I am assigned a room, but as a warning I do know they are very strict with visiting hours (11am to 8pm) and gifts (no flowers or outside food). However my hospital recovery should be short and I hope to be home in less than a week. Then visitors, flowers, and food are all welcome at any time!!

I’ve spent the last week getting myself mentally prepared for the surgery as well as getting the house and my wardrobe ready for my at-home recovery. Lots of spring cleaning, some new comfy lounging pants (ones that fit and don’t fall right off like the ones left over from my last recovery), and lots of comfort foods. We’re about ready and the rest of the week looks to be busy as well and Friday morning (I have to be there at 6am, though the surgery is set for 7:30am) will be here before I know it. At least I have some fun to look forward to between now and then…two more days to the Pogues….

I may have time for an update after Wednesday’s meetings. If not, Pat will be updating the site on a daily basis beginning on Friday. Most likely the updates will be posted in the evenings, depending on the availability of wireless access at Beth Israel.

Thanks again to everyone for your love and support.

Posted by jean at March 13, 2006 08:00 PM
Comments

jean,
we want you to know our thoughts and prays are
with you, and hope you make a speedy recovery..
Love,
Danny and Jewel

Posted by: Danny at March 14, 2006 12:58 PM

Jean - You know you are always in my prayers. Our best wishes for a speedy recovery.

Love
Patty & Joe

Posted by: Patty at March 14, 2006 02:14 PM

hey, we are ready when you are for this to be if it has to be. can't wait till you are on your way to recovery with this behind you. know it is nerve wracking with all this waiting for dates but just remember you have done your homework and you are as prepared as anyone on this planet!!! good luck, sweeties and our prayers go with you. zertog auntie s

Posted by: auntie sandy at March 15, 2006 09:23 AM

Hi Jean! Missing you here at the office already and hoping you're back soon. I'm going to make a trip to the bookstore to stock up on a few things in your absence :), so let me know if there's anything you'd like to read when you're done with the no- and light-reading stage! Greek prayers coming your way.

Best,
Patricia

Posted by: Patricia Smith at March 15, 2006 11:30 AM

Guess you will not be thinking about the wearin' of the green on Friday. We are all pulling and praying for you and we'll keep reading that blog.

Love, Claire

Posted by: Claire at March 15, 2006 12:25 PM

I'm thinking good karma and a pot of gold for you. Good luck!

Posted by: Kathy at March 15, 2006 03:56 PM

Hi Jean. I'm a friend of Pat's from HMCo . . . we met once before but it’s been a while so no worries if you don't remember me. Anyway, I just wanted to let you know you're in my nightly prayers and that I'm wishing you a speedy and complete recovery.

Linda

Posted by: Linda at March 15, 2006 05:32 PM

Hi Jean my name is Stephanie I am Kathy's daughter. I have been meening to write you for some time. Do you believe that 2 Bloomfield girls have this rare form of cancer? I cannot believe it but we are both fighters. I just want to say I have the same "bathroom issues" as you. I will go 5-8 times a day. It really bothers me. Maybe one day when you feel up to it I can call you and see what meds you have been taking. I lastly want to say much luck on your upcoming surgery, I know you will do well. Keep continuing to fight the fight I know we both will win. Take good care and I'll talk to you soon. Stephanie Castellano

Posted by: Stephanie at March 15, 2006 06:29 PM

Jean,
Best of luck on Friday. You know I will be praying for you. Looking forward to your updates. God Bless.
Kathie

Posted by: Kathie Browning at March 15, 2006 07:45 PM